Inspiration for your journey to God!

Author: MSFriend (Page 14 of 142)

Powerful lessons from the trees!

Lessons from the trees are quite powerful! It’s been just one month since I promised myself I’d be more aware and present. As you would imagine, it’s an ongoing process and constant unfolding. Of course, I’ve faltered along the way but I’m remembering to be tender with myself. I’m acutely aware that every single moment is a new opportunity to course correct and start over and it’s okay.

This morning, after my prayer and meditation time, I decided to sit outside in my hot tub under the stars and relish the morning stillness. After a few moments, my eyes zoned in on the forest of trees before me. I was drawn in by their majesty. Each one so tall – symbols of life and strength. I thought about how still they were, all in their designated place, simply being what they were created to be, serving their purpose. On the surface they appear separate and individual but deep down they’re all connected by their roots.

One thought led to another and I began to think of humanity. I made the connection. We too are capable of being majestic. We too are meant to stand tall as symbols of life and strength – not in an arrogant way but in a way that shows our confidence and trust in the grace and mercy of God.

So my challenge for myself today is to continue working on presence but take it a step further and learn from the trees. In my presence, I will consider the following:

Do I take enough time to be still?

For me, being still is more than not working and curling up with a good book. It’s about taking time to sit in silence, with no distraction of thought or action. This is the time we get to hear God truly speak. This is the time we allow God to work in and through us. If you’ve never done it before, it is extremely uncomfortable and may even feel like a waste of time but nothing could be further from the truth.

What is my “designated place” at any given moment?

I want to see God everywhere and know that He is with me. I want to see Him at work in everything I do and everywhere I am. This is the only way to experience true joy and happiness in this life. What better way to do that than to recognize that He has placed me or at least led me to “this place” in my life. Wherever I am, whatever destination, whatever situation, I will consider an act of Divine Providence.

Am I’m being what God created me to be IN THE MOMENT?

God created us to be many things: to be loving, compassionate, kind – think gifts and fruit, as mentioned in the Bible. He created us to be good stewards and light and salt of the earth. I can go on and on. These are all things we have in common, not to be confused with our own unique gifts and talents. Each day we’re called to be one thing or another for the betterment of the world. I will consider where I’m being called each day.

Am I serving my purpose at any given moment?

When I used to think of what my purpose was, I always thought about what SPECTACULAR thing I was meant to do in this life. Today, as I wrote, it became clear to me that discernment is our purpose. Discernment is the culmination of all the work we put into the stillness, silence, presence and awareness. Purpose is not to be confused with role. For example: your “role” in life may be to be a mom but your purpose in life is to discern how you should act at any given moment. Our purpose is to be aware enough to see where God is leading and then use our unique gifts and talents to complete the task. Unique gifts and talents are not our purpose – they’re the means to an end. Our purpose is to figure out how, where and when to use our gifts and talents – that’s discernment!

How we’re all connected

Finally, I’m most excited to consider that no one in this world is separate from me. I believe this consideration has the power to transform me and make me a better human being. Like the trees WE ARE ALL CONNECTED! I’m connected to that person in my life who is difficult to love or that stranger I can so easily judge and even that person whose values seem in direct opposition to mine. WE ARE ALL CONNECTED, helping each other grow, nourishing, teaching and guiding. You’ve been placed in a person’s path for a reason and vice versa – be it a family member, friend or total stranger. It’s not a coincidence your paths have crossed. Consider why?

Powerful lessons from trees!

Everyone and everything belongs, is enough and worthy of love. God says so! Will you join me in this month’s challenge?! God bless you!

Pondering in the new year

This is BlueJay and “he’s good!”

Pondering a new year. I didn’t want to do it. I didn’t want to be awake at midnight to usher in a new year. So many emotions were coursing through me. Sadness because I lost my brother “last year”; happiness because the year 2021 would be “gone” – good riddance; guilt because other than my brother’s passing, it was a great year for me; guilt because my faith tells me my bother Jay is perfect now and yet I’m sad, somewhat angry and confused; worried about what the new year will bring; anxious about work and determined to do and be better.

Did somebody say resolution?

When I woke up this morning, I started thinking about things I wanted to accomplish and how I wanted to change. I thought about planning new routines, setting new goals and making time for it all – workouts, reading, prayer, eating habits, relationships, hobbies. Then it hit me: Fr. Dave’s words to me, “be tender with yourself” and Betty White’s words “don’t take yourself too seriously.”

You see, I know myself all too well. I set goals, plan new routines and when the slightest thing goes wrong, when there’s just one day my routine gets disrupted, my whole world comes to a halt. Something in my psyche says “you messed up and you can’t move forward until you make up what you missed.

Let go – with the flow!

I guess I have to take my own advice and go with the flow. One thing that struck me as I pondered a “resolution” was present moment awareness. If I could set one goal for myself this year, it’s going to be to remain present and aware at every moment. I’m so far from consistent with this and I know it’s going to be a long, hard road but it’s something I want and need to do if I’m going to live each day to the fullest.

What goes into being fully present and aware though? As I sit in silence I realize there are many moving parts. So much goes into it and so much can come out of it.

Humility

First, there’s thinking of myself less. In other words, if I’m stuck in my head preoccupied with what others think of me or how I look or how I’m perceived, then I’m not experiencing the moment as I should. Things become much clearer, literally, when you are in the moment and not in your head.

Trust

Second, I have to worry less about outcomes. That means giving up control and allowing what’s happening to happen. It means trusting that God is in control and everything He does is better than anything I could ever accomplish.

Focus on self-care

Third, it means I have to be less distracted. Distractions for me come in the form of social media and the demands of others. I have to leave my phone alone and I have to take care of myself fully before I can be any good to anyone else. In my last post I quoted St. Bernard of Clairveaux who once said: “The man who is wise, therefore, will see his life as more like a reservoir than a canal. The canal simultaneously pours out what it receives; the reservoir retains the water till it is filled, then discharges the overflow without loss to itself … Today there are many in the Church who act like canals, the reservoirs are far too rare … You too must learn to await this fullness before pouring out your gifts, do not try to be more generous than God.” I want to be wise and act like a reservoir!

Bottom line: Remain present and out of my head; be honest with myself, acknowledge my limitations and turn to God for help; take care of myself both physically and spiritually; be grateful for EVERYTHING and recognize the grace in it all.

The key to success

As I continued to ponder the idea of filling my year with tenderness and present moment awareness, I imagined I would fall short of following through for an entire 365 days. Then, because our God is an awesome God, I was reminded of the daily Examen. BAM! Therein, lies the key to the success of my plan. If I can remember to do a daily examen each evening, then it will allow me to take stock of how and where I fell short of God’s plan for me. Then each morning will be a clean slate, a “new year” for me. Given the way my brain works, the daily examen may just be the perfect way for me to remain on course without becoming paralyzed.

Still making a list

Even though I’m going to choose tenderness and present moment awareness as my personal theme for this year (notice I didn’t call them resolutions) I’m still going to keep a list of the goals and routines that initially popped into my head this morning. I’ll do it, not because I want to accomplish it all but, more so because I want to conduct an experiment of sorts. Later in the year I want to gauge how being present helped me accomplish so much more than I would have imagined. I’d encourage you to do the same. I have a feeling we’re going be pleasantly surprised.

I pray this year be one of tremendous growth for all of us. That it be the year we clearly see God working in our lives. May this be the year we choose to live out our purpose of being participants and co-creators alongside Him who loves us more than we could ever imagine! Happy New Year! God bless you!

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